Posts Tagged ‘Lessons’

Day 481: Insane road trip & awesome videos

Wednesday, August 25th, 2010

Intense Malaysian visa run – a mashup:
9 visa runners, 2 drivers; 3 women, 8 men; an unexpected array of my (direct & indirect) experiences. UK-dominated group including one outrageously rude dirty old bastard, one Arnold Schwarzenegger look-alike with hypnotizing voice, two entertaining party girls, one “reunionist”, one soloist, one passive-aggressive Asian, a quiet French guy & a water-drinking Swede.

Mischievous shots, party mood, happy energies, random talk & casual bonding. Louder & louder, Sangsom & Valium, lack of sleep, built up inner frustration, dirty energies, fight-picking swearword-saturated shouting, near-pissing-in-a-bottle-experience, close encounter, panic attack, overflowing inner anger, unstable death threats & Thai driver with serious Muay Thai skills.

In & out of passport controls, new stamps, filling out forms. Memory loss, spewing the guts out, alcohol poisoning. Walking & talking, Zen conversations, vacuum definitions & creative thinking. Tossing & turning, late-night-mind-reading/writing & tiny English speaking Malaysian cockroaches in the bed.

3 am hotel receptionist savior, solo food-hunt, awesome waiter from Bangladesh, Malaysian old man, double kindness, unfortunate jealousy & lucky payback. Mohammed Ali on bike rides, room service hookers from The Boss (via credit card) and Thai “culture” stories.

Late-night-drunken-overseas-call-to-ex-partner, sleeping with phone off the hook, 15 000 Baht phone bill. Massive road trip, smiling drivers, food, food, food, smoking, smoking, smoking. Asian toilets, wet floors, moths, spiders, geckos & frogs. Movies, music, girl talk and spontaneous she-male mission. Laugther, Facebook, pictures, phone numbers & see you later.

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I loved the talk between us women that went from the phenomenon of lady-boys into the planning of a she-male mission. We got all jazzed up and one of them said “oh, listen, we’re talking just like a group of blokes”. Suddenly I got a new understanding for the whole Bangla Road circus, about the fun and the playfulness. How’s that for an eye opener.

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Oh! There’s so much I’d like to share, it was such a crazy and insanely unexpected journey. Then I came back, started my laptop to write this post and stumbled upon a video clip called “The empathic civilisation” via Pamela von Sabljar. I was surprised by how well it connects to what I’ve experienced and also have written about during our wacky road trip (most of all the content of the zen convos & the late nate writing, but also the state transferral or shared experience (i.e. me experiencing the same thing as someone else, just because my brain reacts even if it’s someone else’s experience)).

Went on to check out another one: “21st century enlightenment” from the same creator and found even more similarities. I love how synchronicity works! I love how much there is to learn and how freaking awesome any situation can be, when I choose a perspective that moves me forward in the direction I fancy. See the videos below and see what insights they bring to you. Think big. It feels good.

The empathic civilisation

Notice how the monkey brain reacts to the human act of nut-eating.

21st century enlightenment

“To live differently involves to think differently”

Day 474: Enlightenment, business plans & casual prostitution

Tuesday, August 17th, 2010

So, today I’ve written a note on enlightenment, moved forward with my business planning and had a conversation about what I guess could be labeled “casual prostitution” during my dinner. Just another day in Patong Beach…

Enlightenment (+ awesome opportunity for extraordinary visionaries)
The note on enlightenment stems from my last conversation with Pamela von Sabljar and our decision to collect parts of our conversations in a book about, that’s right, enlightenment. By the way, if you or anyone you know is looking for a world class mentor, I’m happy to announce that Pamela now opens the doors for a few new highly selected clients. It’s a twelve-week kick-ass mentor program for extraordinary visionaries with an amazing will & commitment to move forward. The results when working together with this fabulous woman are nothing short of amazing. Drop me a line at malin@winwinworldtour.com and I’ll connect with you to find out if you’re a perfect fit for the program.

The business planning is fun!
I’m going through the deals that just seem to land on my lap, together with products & programs (like the one I mentioned above) that not only has the potential to shift lives and increase energy levels on their own. They also fit well into the business I’m finally setting up, to generate the income that will propel me towards the ultimate goal of my journey: investing $100 000 per month in projects empowering millions of people spread across all of our continents. (Yep, it’s still there, it never disappeared, I only had some random stuff to face and go beyond before I dared looking at the challenge I created for myself.)

And the prostitution…
Well, it’s about this chick that I really like because she’s always so warm and caring and helpful and nice to be around… She sat down with me, seemingly nervous, and asked if I could help her out. She’s short of 3 000 Baht for a payment towards the car that makes it possible for her dad to continue with his work up in Bangkok. Could I please lend her the money and have them back on the 5th when she receives her salary? As much as I’d love to help her out, I just don’t have the money myself at the moment. The next part is the sad part. If she doesn’t find the money, she’ll “go out on Bangla to go with falang”. Nothing special with that, that’s pretty much what all Thai ladies around here does. Many of them seem to do it more for the easy extra cash than for the actual “need” for it (“I never fuck for free” & “I only fuck handsome men” are two phrases I hear ever so often). But today, hearing this side of it, I started thinking about what else is possible. Really, paying the 3 000 Baht wouldn’t be a sustainable solution. Next month the payment is another 8 000 Baht, which is the total monthly payment AND her total monthly salary. So, what else is possible? And not just for this one person in this isolated situation, but on a bigger scale? What else can warm hearted talented young women do to be able to support themselves and often their families too?

Some sort of conclusion
What I do, I mean the core of the Win Win World Tour, is taking baby steps towards brightening up our world/increasing our energy levels/moving our world forward together with other dedicated visionaries. I’m knitting and stapling and building, creating a highly-profitable-business-to-be, that increases the possibilities for awesome visionaries to spread even more of their awesomeness at the same time as a significant cash flow is generated. An increasing part of that cash flow will fund projects which in different ways empower people around the world – for example young women as the one above who now chooses casual prostitution simply because that how it’s done.

But hey, I’m new to most of what I’m doing and no matter how giddy I get when I experience one divine intervention after another, I still have a lot of things to figure out and/or put in place. What I’m saying is that this whole adventure that I’m experiencing is a journey & a learning process in so many ways. It’s taking a lot of time and it’s ok. I no longer feel an urge to “save the world” because no matter what I do or don’t, I’m sure that the world is moving in the right direction at a very decent speed. I’ve let go of my trying-to-be-a-saint-approach and I’m embracing the fact that I do this because I highly enjoy experiencing so many different aspects of life. If I can contribute to make the world a bit brighter in the process, then high five for that – but honestly, there’s no “saving” needed. People are highly capable. What we can use a bit more of is creative ways to collaborate and cooperate, so that even more of people’s gifts and passions brighten up our world.

Oh, my thoughts give birth to new thoughts giving birth to new ones, continuing ever after. Hey! It’s time to take care of some final tasks and then we’re going out to play pool and dance. It’s been way too long since last time and having fun is fun. Simple as that. :)

I’ll continue sharing my reflections another day.

Day 472: Sex, money & spirituality

Sunday, August 15th, 2010

Hello again!

Had another splendid call with Pamela von Sabljar today. During our conversation we covered three of our favorite topics; sex, money & spirituality. It’s interesting to find new connections between the three of them and to see how important they all are as ingredients of a wholesome life. Interesting also that they’re all so covered in taboos, shame, blame, guilt and cultural musts & must nots at the same time as they’re sources of so much joy and fulfillment.

I’m so fascinated by the talk I had with an incredibly talented stripper in Toronto about a year ago, when she told me about her dream of all men & women in the whole world reaching the climax of a simultaneous orgasm. Her vivid description of what a collective orgasm like that would look like was something that showed up in my mind several months later when someone else vividly described what a global increase in our collective level of consciousness would be like. Changing a few words here and there, their mental images were mirroring each other.

Napoleon Hill dedicated a full chapter to our sexual energy as the ultimate creative energy in his book Think & Grow Rich. We create with our thoughts and the energy level we’re on while we’re thinking (=creating) decides the outcome of our creations. And creating we are, the only question is if we’re doing it on a conscious level or if we’re doing it without a clue about us being the creators of the lives we’re living.

The three topics sex, money & spirituality keep showing up in different ways, shapes & forms wherever I go. The question I’m carrying with me is how they are connected and how they enhance each other on our way to an increased energy level – and ultimately enlightenment.

I’m having a lot of fun while exploring it further. The way my mind wanders while my beliefs and life perspectives are challenged is pretty random and I’m enjoying the ride.

I believe that withheld creativity and sexual energy is the cause of a lot of issues. I wonder to what extent sexual & creative frustration is the cause of eating disorders, obesity, assault, divorces, self-injurious behavior and suicide? I’m also curious about how a healthy flow of sexual and creative energy is the seedbed for outstanding creations, fulfilled relationships, healthy societies and thriving cultures.